Anyone who has had a job and then suddenly finds them out on the streets doing a new job search knows just how hard this situation can affect ones personal and family life. Immediately you are being thrown a whole new set of stress issues that you are forced to deal with and may not have been prepared to handle.
You also understand that the upcoming weeks will be vitally important for you and your survival financially. If you learn to use the correct resources available and how to take care of the money you do have is going to help you determine if this is just going to be something that is temporary or end up in a disaster.
For you to cope with your unemployment better you should first try and focus. You need to try and keep positive and try and find some way to get your spirits lifted. The best way to do that is to turn to your family and friends for advice, moral support and loving encouragement.
Even though you are no longer working, all job seekers need to still try and wake up as early as they can in the mornings and begin scheduling your job search tactics. Make sure to make plans to do online research first because a lot of companies hire in that manner in today's job market. Then try going to your local library and read books that will help you to understand how to write an excellent resume.
You should also not hesitate to begin filing for you unemployment benefits. Very few people are turned down for unemployment unless the reason they were let go is one that is considered unacceptable behavior by your employment office. Even thought the unemployment checks are going to be nothing compared to what you are use to getting, it's important that you starting getting that check as soon as you can.
Take care to keep close tabs on all the money that you spend, this means on everything. You don't have that luxury any longer to be overspending in any shape or form. Simply carry a small notebook with you wherever you go and take note of everything you spend your money on. When you see where your money is going you can sit down and see what you really need to stop spending your money on.
Make sure that you have all of your priorities in line. Make a list of everything you spend money on and all of the bills and list them in which the most important are at the top of your list. Try not to skip bills like your rent, mortgage or credit card payments. So be wise in what you choose to pay and not pay right away.
Even though you may be in a financial bind due to the loss of your job, it is still important that you find some time for yourself. There are many things that you can do that won't cost you money, even if it means talking a quiet walk in the park. But your body and mind will benefit for it and thank you for it in the end.